Thursday, November 29, 2012

Thoughts on recent strike by PRC drivers

Much talk has been going around regarding the strike PRC drivers went on a few days ago. It is a first in many years for our Singapore society, obviously stirring up quite a storm in our supposedly-peaceful society.

Just wanted to pen down some thoughts I have, but I am of course no social analyst, but personally I do feel for the PRC drivers. It was said that lines of communications are open, perhaps in formality, but honestly, where and how can these drivers fend for their rights?

这些人人生地不熟,离乡背井来到一个陌生的地方工作,对这里的制度和系统不熟悉。说实在的,他们到底能找谁去帮他们争取福利,或是摆脱不平等的待遇?我自己认识一些在新的外籍人士,特别是劳工阶级的,我常感觉他们处于被剥削的状态,但却投报无门。

I have been reading some articles, and i do agree with many of them that say these workers have little bargaining power. For these people, it is almost seen as a “privilege” to be able to come to Singapore and work here. If you are not happy with what you are getting, you can jolly well leave this job and go somewhere else. 

So much more is needed to be done for these labour workers in Singapore, really.

Saturday, November 17, 2012

初见曙光之时

妊娠期进入第三周期后,常会在早上四至六时之间起床,之后要再回去睡就成问题了。

今天也是这样。也因为接近预产期的关系,最近的我开始有了很多想法。

有点感觉自己面临身份危机。

一直以来,我都清楚知道自己要什么,该做什么,生活的不同时间也带着不同使命。突然之间,自己得放慢脚步,花了很久的时间才习惯。现在来到了第三周期,因为生活步伐放慢,我更是有时间思考我的人生。

今早想起了有人说的一句话。

在这段时间,我就是应该要陪在我孩子身边。

是啊,我们的生命在不同的时候,就该扮演不同的角色。

灵命,家庭,服事,工作。。。这一切都需要平衡。

Intricate balance.

有时有些焦虑,担心自己是否能胜任。但感谢上帝的是,我周围有许多敬虔的母亲,她们真的是我学习的榜样。

我需要。。。再次找到自己的定位。


给自己说声:加油。

Thursday, November 08, 2012

heavy, bulky, bloated, clumsy and…?

thankful. (:

Now at week 27, going on to 28, I am starting to feel really pregnant and bulky. Feeling a little clumsy and that my skin is super stretched…

But just really thankful.

Today is the first time i experienced water retention in such a real way! my fingers and toes were swollen when i woke up, it was so bad that I could not really move my fingers in the morning… they felt too tight. My toes looked so bloated…

I think what is the most exciting at this stage… is not just feeling the baby move… but "seeing” the baby move! Not that u can see it with your naked eye… but the baby moves so much nowadays, i can see my clothes moving when she moves! She will jerk and if I am resting anything on my tummy, my hand will jerk as well. That is a very thrilling feeling… Hahaha…

Counting my blessings… Smile